Love makes us free from expectations, which enables us to accept
people as they are. We are then able to understand others' uniqueness
and provide them with whatever is necessary for their positive growth.
Let me think of one person in whom I am not able to tolerate some
quality. I then need to tell myself that just as a mother accepts her
child even with weaknesses, I will accept this person as he is. When
I change my attitude towards that person I can be free in my mind and
give them the freedom to express their uniqueness.